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Don’t let your emotions control the things you do and the way you express yourself, especially when she doesn’t like you back yet.If you don’t know her yet, make sure you get her attention the right way.[Read: 12 ways to get any girl’s attention no matter where you are] And once you do get her attention, all you need to do is talk and charm your way into her heart.You may end up portraying yourself like a clingy or creepy guy who’s desperately trying to win her attention.[Read: 10 types of creepy guys all girls avoid] Instead of trying hard to make her like you, just try to make her enjoy being with you.In retrospect, I think we all could've used a good verbal shin-kicking to yank us out of our alternate realities.There's no guarantee it would have actually worked (heaven knows some people certainly tried), but if I could go back in time and be the one to make the speech, here's what I would have said.