I feel like that is the wrong reason to marry someone. My husband and I got married 5 months before we conceived but if we had gotten pregnant first we probably would have waited a while longer to get married.She now thinks I am just the worst person to walk the earth. I would have felt that he wasn't marrying me for love and also a baby is a lot of work and so is a new marriage so both at the same time would be very difficult.But the morality of each person is very different and personal. You can date married men and women provided you are clear about what you want from the relationship.

This raises so many issues for us like whether we should get married, where we should live, where we should live over the summer break (she needs me to be there for her while she's pregnant and it's my baby too), and how we are going to support ourselves once the baby is born.You can just be dating someone and have a baby with them there's always time to get married in the future if that's what you want :-) good luck with everything and congrats! I think that's a mistake a lot of people make if you marry for anything other than love it will cause more problems than not getting married will.My husband and I got married 5 months before we conceived but if we had gotten pregnant first we probably would have waited a while longer to get married.If possible, try to get hitched in your second trimester.Your morning sickness should be gone by then (or at least eased up enough so you can face the buffet without barfing).I've looked into a few things such as government benefits, what we should do about study loads, and I think we have a rough idea of how things will work out.Our families are very supportive although fairly concerned for us at the same time. I believe we should get married, not only because of the baby but because I love her a lot and I know she loves me too. I've read countless articles and books on sex before marriage (including the ones on the Boundless website) and firmly believe in the benefits of not doing it, but I chose to do it anyway.